Step one, step two.

The Fray - How To Save a Life

Step one: You say: "We need to talk." He walks, you say: "Sit down, it's just a talk."
He smiles politely back at you, you stare politely right on through some sort of window to your right. As he goes left and you stay right between the lines of fear and blame, you begin to wonder why you came.

As he begins to raise his voice, you lower yours and grant him one last choice: "Drive until you lose the road, or break with the ones you've followed." He will do one of two things: He will admit to everything, or he'll say he's just not the same.
And you'll begin to wonder why you came.